Halloween is coming up fast and we're all gearing up for trick-or-treating, whether we'll be out ringing doorbells ourselves, taking the kids out, or handing out the candy. TODAY recently spoke with psychologist and author Dr. Sheryl Ziegler about etiquette for the big night. Dr. Ziegler has a few tips for making sure all goes smoothly and everyone has a fun, safe time.
Here are a few of the standouts:
The One Thing You Should Never Say To Trick-Or-Treaters At The Door
Don't ask "What are you?" or "What are you supposed to be?" You don't want to embarrass a child or hurt their feelings. If you don't recognize the costume, Dr, Ziegler suggests saying "Tell me about your costume." Kids are proud of their costumes and usually excited to tell you all about them.
What Trick-Or-Treaters Should Make Sure To Say
It's a good idea to remind kids trick-or-treating that it's polite to say "Trick or treat!" when someone comes to the door, and "Thank you" when someone gives you candy. People handing out candy are in the Halloween spirit and look forward to these interactions when answering the door. But also important for those of us giving out treats to remember that some children (and adults) are nonverbal, so try not to be offended if someone doesn't say "Trick or treat!", "Thank you", or anything at all.
Getting Your Child Ready For Their First Time Trick-Or-Treating
Crowded streets, spooky decorations, scary costumes, and lots of strangers can make Halloween a little overwhelming for some kids. Dr. Ziegler recommends prepping first-timers by visiting fall festivals, decorating pumpkins, reading Halloween books, or watching videos that show kids trick-or-treating. It might even be a good idea to role play trick-or-treating with them ahead of time, so they know what to expect on the night.
Check out the full article at the link above. It's loaded with good info, including considerations for neurodivergent children and kids with food allergies, handling older kids who want a little Halloween independence, and avoiding costumes that may stereotype or mock someone's culture, traditions, or race.
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